Mettle | Issue #011 | 10.15.25
Presence
The Power Move
Stand Up When Greeting…Always
Stand up when someone approaches—even mid-conversation, mid-meal, mid-anything. Rising to greet someone, especially when shaking hands, signals respect and presence. It says, "You're worth my full attention."
Most men stay seated out of convenience or obliviousness. Don't be most men. The gesture takes two seconds and leaves a lasting impression. Whether it's a business meeting, a dinner introduction, or meeting your date's parents for the first time, standing separates you from everyone who didn't bother.
It's old-school. It works. And people remember the guy who did it.
The Mettle Take: Standing costs you nothing and earns you everything—respect is in the details.
Own the room. Set the tone.

Events
On The Radar
The Man Show Expo - Wichita, KS - 10/25 & 10/26
The Midwest hasn't had a proper men's interest expo in over a decade. That drought ends now and the Mettle team is making the trip to Kansas to see what the buzz is all about!
The Man Show Expo isn't here to pander. It's built around what men actually want: tech that solves problems, tools that last, outdoor gear that performs, fitness equipment worth the investment, grooming products that work, and style that doesn't need explaining.
No fluff. No gimmicks. Just quality gear, hands-on demos, and both local and national businesses that know their stuff.
VIP tickets get you into an exclusive lounge with drinks, early access before the crowds, and a swag bag loaded with products you'll actually use.
Throughout the weekend, there will be tons of live demos, guest appearances by professional athletes and media personalities, a silent auction, and more.
If you live in the Midwest or need an excuse for a weekend getaway, this is it! Click here for details & tickets.
Life’s Short. Buy the Ticket. Savor the Moment

Money
Compound Mettle
The Power of Saying “No” to Impulse Purchases
Financial discipline isn't about deprivation—it's about intention. Every dollar you don't waste on impulse buys is a dollar working for you.
The Problem: Retailers engineer impulse purchases. Strategic product placement, limited-time offers, one-click checkout—all designed to bypass your rational brain. That unplanned $40 seems harmless, but compound it weekly and you've blown $2,000 a year on things you forgot you bought.
The Fix: Institute a 24-hour rule for unplanned purchases over $50. Walk away. Sleep on it. Most urges fade. For smaller impulses, track every discretionary purchase for one month. Seeing the cumulative damage creates accountability fast.
Why It Works: Saying "no" in the moment builds the muscle for saying "yes" to what matters: investments, experiences, quality. Impulse control today becomes financial freedom tomorrow.
The Mettle Take: Wealth isn't built by what you earn—it's built by what you keep. Master the pause.
Wealth is Built, Not Rushed.

Fitness
Built to Last
Top 5 Fitness Trends That Actually Matter in 2025
The rules of fitness are changing. In 2025, it's less about chasing numbers—and more about training smarter, recovering efficiently, and staying in the game longer.
1. Hybrid Fitness Is the New Standard The gym and your living room are now teammates. Mix in-person sessions with app-based programming for flexibility without sacrificing accountability.
2. Functional Strength Over Ego Lifts Squats, carries, pulls—workouts that translate to real life. Train to be built to last, not just look good in the mirror.
3. Data-Driven Discipline Wearables like WHOOP, Oura Ring, and Apple Watch measure recovery, sleep, and stress. Train smarter, not longer. Let the data guide you.
4. Recovery Isn't Optional Anymore: Forget the cold plunge. Recovery is built on five things: clean eating, enough protein, solid sleep, mobility and hydration.
5. Community Over Competition From CrossFit and HYROX to local run clubs, men are finding power in the tribe. The new flex? Showing up consistently.
Train with focus. Fuel with purpose.

Stay Sharp,
The Mettle Team